relationships

relationships.
everyone seems to be getting in and out of relationships like theres no tomorrow. and those who fight to be in it just be in it for the sake of having one. whats the point right? i mean ive done my share of that. at the end of the day, this is what ull get :

happiness : 0
love : 0
drained out : VERY
self hatred : SKY HIGH
giving up on everything? : ALL THE TIME
concentration level : 0
caring bout the other person? : NONE AT ALL.
false hope for your partner? : A HUNDRED MILLION MUCH!
unfairness : INFINITY MUCH (for both parties)

and everything else negative. so, people, think before you get in something. dont just jump and grab whatever that comes your way just cause you might be feeling lonely at that time. it wont do you any good. people you find when you are not emotionally ready will always end up being the wrong person. trust me. its okay to take all the time you need to get to know someone and fully give yourself to them, (vice versa of cause) unless you are a hundred million much sure, dont commit. theres still a longggggg way to go in life. dont go looking for it, when you dont expect it, and you get it, it will be good ;p

oprah : " relationships are there to make you happy. it is NEVER there to hurt you"

(haha, dont know what got into me when i was writing this =p.)

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